Well guys my wife and I got back from Nashville, and we had a really good time, of just being together. It was the first time in our 10 years that we ever left our children for more than 2 nights. Staci was a little bit worried, but she soon got over it. Of course tho as we were away Chloe decides to have a fever and get all blotchy on us. That added a bit more stress to the situation, but in the end, everyone was fine.
The reason we even went to Nashville, (during our anniversary) was to network, get insight and enter a competition for GMA called Immerse. This was the very first time I have ever contemplated about doing something like this, but I thought it would be a good learning experience, and it certainly was.
Ok people hold your breath because the information below may startle you…
I learned that even tho it is called the Christian Music Industry/Business, it is just that a business. Yes I know I should’ve already known that, but hey we all have some sort of blinders on. I learned that selling merchandise, CD’s, tickets and being the trend are all what you need in order for you to be successful at this “business”. Money and networking are also key points. The last thing on their mind (not all, bust most) is the ministry aspect. I went to a few “classes” they had their and it was all about trends. They had the college years trend, with Bebo, Caedmon’s Call, Jars of Clay etc., They had the singer/songwriter trend, with Chris Rice, Scott Krippanye, Ginny Owens, etc., They had the worship trend where everyone jumped on that bandwagon…the trend goes on and on. As far as I know, their hasn’t been a handicapped trend…don’t see one in the future as well.
What I did learn was to be thankful and content with where God has me. I am very successful in raising three beautiful girls, having a healthy loving marriage and following the steps that God pre-ordained for my life. This was one of the things that Michael W Smith spoke about at this event which rings so true. He stated that he thought it was all about him in the past, but as he gets older he realizes it’s all about Jesus. You can get all these great earthly awards, recognitions and atta-boy’s, but what do they really mean when we leave this earth. Your answer = absolutely nada. I’d much rather have known that I TRIED to live my life for HIS honor and glory to the best of my ability, than to pour my heart and soul and time away from my family (my 1st priority) into something that I can get recognized for down here that is quickly fading. Unfortunately some of the artists that they had perform haven’t really come to that realization. Not naming any names, but most performers were very self absorbed, I did this and that, and self glorified themselves that it was almost comical. Went to an evening concert, and wasn’t impressed. This girl performed and she hardly even sang. She sells records, but has more effects on her microphone and backing tracks than Ashlee Simpson. I did not feel God at this point of the concert. Than a group came out, that I really liked and felt they’re humble attitudes. I am now a new fan of Leeland. These guys from Baytown, Texas really showed their emotion, heart and love for Christ. It really was refreshing, and I really didn’t know much of their music prior. I even walked past em outside prior to the concert, and only recognized them cause of Leeland’s red hair. After the evening concert I felt that they were one of the few who were in it for the real reason.
After the concert they showed up on powerpoint who was a semi-finalist from the category that I entered. Lo and behold my name popped up. So I was pretty excited yet still looking forward to the following day to showcase my talent that God had given to me. I sang “Home” by Daughtry that following day and thought I did very well…but later on I did not receive admission to the finals. I was one of 75 people who was cut down to 6. I received some critiquing on my “performance”…some stated I need a broader vocal range, more musicianship (playing skills/technique), more audience appeal, and my marketability is non-existent..there’s that no arms thing comin back to haunt me…lol
I tried to take all the things that are out of my control in good spirits, but I was very disappointed. I was like this is how the world treats me, not Christian people…but they did, and they do…so what’s next…?
Well what’s next is continuing to be a good husband, father and leaning on God to guide me thru everything He wants to bring me thru. I am blessed beyond measure!!
A few people I enjoyed getting to know for very brief periods of time were:
Michael O’Brien - soloist/ex lead singer of Newsong
Bubba Smith - producer
Jeff Nelson - producer
Mitchell Solarek - manager
After I knew I was not advancing, I wanted to at least go downtown and see Nashville and all its glory. So since Staci (bless her heart as Texans say) agreed on this Anniversary trip which was pretty much all for me, (she has never been to Nashville and could care less) I at least wanted her to have a good time since Hawaii was not on the agenda this year.
We had a great time just enjoying each other’s company and sight seeing. We went to the country music hall of fame, and also studio B where my favorite singer of all time, Elvis, recorded many many albums.
We also went on a boat trip that included a very nice lunch and show with Tim Watson. He is a crck up and more than anything a phenomenal fiddler. We really had a blast.
Thanks for reading. Hope I didn’t bore you too much, I know it’s long winded. I’ll try to be a better blogger, I swear….
Off to Alabama….
Jon